Bill always tells me, "Autumn, you make mountains out of mole hills." I think the statement is always so funny because I over analyze everything and stress and worry about everything. On the contrary, he doesn't analyze, stress, or worry about anything. That's why we are a good match. I'm sure a good portion of him thinks that things will be fine because I will take care of it and I usually do (whether I want to or not!) He also takes care of me which is really important.
I want to get the chores done in 1 or 2 days, he says "they can wait." I have a never ending list of things I need to get done on my days off and he prefers watching tv or college football on his day off. I worry about how much money we have, how much money we spend, and what bills are due when. I budget everything. He has money, he will spend all of it, period. He doesn't worry about about budgets or expenses. I truly believe he feels being the "banker" is my job and I willingly accept it.
He's handy, I'm not. I worry if something breaks how we will fix it? He says, "don't worry I will fix it, don't make mountains out of mole hills." He thinks I stress too much about everything and wonders why the hell I can't "slow down." He wonders why I work so much and why I just can't relax and lay down when we're at home watching tv. I don't know we are just so different we are alike and it's great.
It's both interesting and frustrating to see how we handle different things on different levels. Differences aside, we do have a lot of fun together.
Variety is the spice of life.
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